The days prior to a temporary orders hearing or trial can be extremely tense. For one thing, it’s likely that you’ve never been inside of a courtroom before and your unfamiliarity will likely cause you to feel apprehensive. Secondly, this is a family law case we’re talking about here. Whether it is a divorce or a child custody case your children, your finances and possibly both are at stake. That alone is enough to put a few butterflies in your stomach.
Whether or not you feel good about going to court the fact remains is that if you are unlikely to settle your case either for temporary or final orders the result will be that you and the opposing party will have to attend a trial in order to have your case decided by a judge.
One of the best pieces of advice that I was told as a young attorney was to always make sure you have prepared your client to the best of your ability prior to any courtroom appearance. Sometimes lawyers get so caught up in their own responsibilities associated with representing you the client that we can forget that you are more apprehensive than anyone else.
Taking a step back and helping you is what an attorney does. It’s the oath that we swore to when we were licensed as attorneys- to put your interests ahead of our own.
With that said, I would like to share with you some advice on testifying in court and how it can be impactful- not only on the case itself but on how your judge will view you. Your credibility as a witness is just as important as the content of what you actually say while under oath. It’s with that fact in mind that we begin our discussion with some basics on courtroom testimony.
Above all else, always tell the truth
Always, always, always tell the truth when you are responding to a question in court. I could stop the blog right here and you would have learned the most important lesson of all when it comes to in court testimony. From my experience clients have the idea that if they do not “perform” well while on the witness stand that their case will surely be lost and their lives will never recover. I’m here to tell you that is simply not the case.
For one, your testimony in court is only a part of the evidence that the judge will have to consider when rendering a decision. The opposing party, any other witnesses as well as any documentary evidence entered into the record will also be critically important. Keeping this in mind, there is no need for you to feel like you need to provide certain answers in order so that your case may benefit.
Judges listen to people talk all day long and are very good judges of whether or not the words that you speak are truthful. Even if an answer you are about to provide will hurt your case it does not pay to be untruthful. If the judge sees that you are providing answers even under tough circumstances he or she is likely to take seriously your responses and your case as a whole.
Stretching the truth is something that you should stay away from as well. Just because an answer sounds good coming off your lips doesn’t mean that you should give that response.
Understand the question fully before giving an answer
Prior to a hearing I will always take my client aside and talk to him or her about testifying. After I go over the importance of telling the truth I will tell the client to make 100% sure that you understand the question that is being asked of you before opening your mouth to speak.
Take a moment to let the question sink in and consider whether or not you understand the question being asked. If you do, consider whether or not you know the answer to that question. If you do then provide as succinct and clear a response as you can muster.
If you do not understand a question, whether it is asked by your attorney or the opposing attorney, you should ask him or her to rephrase the question. Lawyers are human beings and are not perfect (ask the spouse of any attorney about that last part).
We ask bad questions all the time. Ones that sound good in our heads but come off our lips making little to no sense. If you are on the witness stand testifying and a lawyer’s question doesn’t make sense ask for a rephrasing of the question. We will take no offense to being asked to do so.
The last thing you want to do is to answer a question that you misunderstood where you provide information that can be potentially harmful to your case. Some lawyers will ask questions in ways that could be interpreted multiple ways just to see if you answer it.
Rather than taking a moment to make sure you understand the question, you run the risk of giving a response that was not only unnecessary but damaging to your case. It is always better to collect yourself before testifying and to ask for the question to be asked again if you do not understand it.
Part Two of our series on Courtroom Testimony to be posted tomorrow
While you may never have to testify in front of a judge in your family law case knowing how to do so is not only important in terms of strengthening your case but also in providing you with peace of mind leading up to your court date. Please stop by our blog tomorrow morning to read part two of our series on in court testimony.
If you have any questions about what you read in today’s blog post please do not hesitate to contact the Law Office of Bryan Fagan. One of our licensed family law attorneys would be honored to speak with you regarding your case in a free of charge consultation.
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