Parents preparing to live underneath a possession schedule due to their divorce or child custody case will always have questions about structuring their programs or ensuring best their and their child’s lives are transitioned well into the new lifestyle. With this in mind, I wanted to share some information on possession, visitation, and time management regarding your child.
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The effect of school on possession in Texas
Suppose you live under a Standard Possession Order (SPO) and have read the language included in the sections detailing possession. In that case, you will know that the order likely considers those weekends that are extended due to school holidays or teacher in-service days. Generally speaking, your possession schedule revolves around the school calendar- when the school year begins and ends on the “macro” level and when the school week begins and concludes on the “micro” level.
It is unlikely that your order contains the name of the school or school district that your order is based around. How can you be sure what school calendar is applicable for you and your child? In a Texas SPO, the school calendar that applies to your situation is either that of the school that your child attends or the school district in which your child resides, primarily if they are not currently enrolled in school.
The last part of the previous paragraph is relevant for parents who have children too young for school. The school district that matters for this discussion is the district assigned to the child’s primary residence. If you are the parent with weekend visitation under the SPO, the school district for where your child’s other parent lives in the relevant community to go by as far as a schedule or calendar is concerned.
A key point to remember during any potential argument or matter of dispute as far as your court order is concerned is that you and your child’s other parent can always negotiate terms that exist outside of the divorce decree or child custody order.
This means that if something included in your order becomes unworkable for either yourself or your child’s other parent, you may decide to go outside of the terms of that order to agree upon something that works better for you and your family. This may help avoid arguments and misunderstandings about portions of your order, such as which school calendar applies to your child.
Primary Custody: What will a judge look at when making this decision for my child?
From my experience, clients going through a child custody or divorce case will always ask about being the “primary” parent as one of their first questions asked of me. This is understandable given that the reason you are going through a custody or divorce case is due, at least in part, to your desire to be able to spend as much time with your child as possible. Even the word “primary” would lead you to believe that you can see your child and be with your child primarily instead of secondarily.
Once you begin your family law case, you may be surprised to learn that joint conservators under a Standard Possession Order have almost equal time with your child as far as possession is concerned. The main difference is determining which parent will have the right to designate your child’s primary residence. Given that the general split of time between parents is fairly even under an SPO, this then would be the real “gem” to be placed in your crown as a parent.
What will a court consider when awarding the role of primary conservator of your child? First and foremost, if there is evidence of child abuse, neglect, or other wrongdoing on the part of you or your child’s other parent, that will nearly permanently automatically disqualify you from becoming the primary conservator of the child. Your ability to be named even a joint conservator of yo4ur child may be in question as well, given past incidents where you or your spouse did not act in the best interest of your child.
For the most part, absent in these extreme circumstances, a court will look at your schedule and compare that to your child’s other parent. Whoever is better positioned to provide immediate attention to your child will likely win out in this area. The ability to co-parent with the other parent and encourage and foster a positive relationship between your child and the other parent is also highly valued from my experience.
Finally, the history of each parent and their involvement in having raised the child will be considered. If you have been an absentee parent while the other parent was there for every school recital and doctor appointment, you will face an uphill battle in your bid to become the primary conservator of your child.
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