Probably the most common family law case in Texas is divorce. You likely know a handful of people in your own life who have been divorced, and you may be one of those people. Divorces come in many shapes and sizes depending on the parties involved and their circumstances. As we begin our discussion on divorce, I want to make known that the information I will provide to you is intended as a general overview rather than specific advice for you and your family.
For specific advice about your case or your potential case, I would recommend that you contact an experienced family law attorney- such as those with the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC. So much of a divorce is not only giving legal advice and advocating for positions in court but is managing the day-to-day struggle of a case.
Divorce cases in Texas are not court-centric. This means that your case may never even see a courtroom until your case is done and over with. Having an attorney means that your case proceeds efficiently- saving you time and money. Having an attorney means you have a sounding board for concerns and questions- a better sounding board than your cousin who has been through three divorces himself.
Does it take two to tango? What if I don't want a divorce, but my spouse does.
You and your spouse got married and formed a contract to live together as spouses. Your spouse wants to break that contract even though you disagree with the decision and do not want the divorce. Can they do that to you?
The answer is yes. In our state, if one spouse wants a divorce, then the divorce will be granted to them. This is because Texas is a no-fault divorce state. This means that neither you nor your spouse has to prove fault in the breakup of the marriage. The most typical reason for a divorce is a "no-fault" divorce. This means that the divorce was likely due to the discord of personalities and irreconcilable differences.
Common-Law Marriage and its effect on divorce in Texas
When there has not been an actual marriage license issued, but the law considers you and another person married, that is called a common-law marriage.
What are the qualifications for a common-law marriage in Texas? First of all, you and another adult must have resided together in Texas, intended to be married, and held yourselves out as being married to other people in your community. You could have met the latter two qualifications and then lived together for one year or one day, and the common law marriage would have been in place.
If you have introduced your partner as your spouse at a party or have filed taxes together as husband and wife, these would be examples of holding yourselves out as spouses rather than boyfriend/girlfriend. This is opposed to simply having a child with someone and living with your child's other parent. This does not qualify as a common-law marriage absent the three qualifications above being met.
Would you need a common-law divorce to end the relationship if you're in a common-law marriage?
If you have not resided with your common-law spouse for longer than two years, then there would be no need for a divorce. The presumption would no longer apply that you are common law married if you lived apart for two years. By that time, the common law marriage would have ended naturally and without the need for a formal divorce. You and your spouse would have forfeited your rights to divide up the community estate, which is the main reason (other than children).
Expected length of a Texas divorce
One of the most frequently asked questions that I am asked in consultations with potential clients of the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC, is how long a divorce takes in our state. Your divorce will take at least sixty days- that much, I can tell you.
This is because the law is that from the date that your divorce petition is filed with the clerk, there is a minimum sixty-day waiting period until you can head to court with an agreed order to have the judge sign off on your divorce. This is done to allow you and your spouse an extended period to consider whether or not you genuinely want to get the divorce.
For the most part, however, divorces take longer than sixty days. Sometimes the length of a divorce is considerably longer than sixty days.
As a general rule of thumb, if you and your spouse have come to tentative or working agreements on most issues of your case, you can expect your divorce to last anywhere from three to six months. If your divorce is contested, meaning that you and your spouse have different ideas about how different problems should be solved, your divorce can take anywhere from six to eighteen months. Most commonly, your divorce will be done in the four to the six-month range to complete.
Community vs. Separate Property
Outside of issues related to children, the property is probably the second most contested aspect of any divorce- including your own. Texas is known as a "community property" state. If you own property and are married, that property is presumed to be community rather than property owned solely by you or your spouse.
The same rule applies to debts owned by either of you. When your marriage ends due to divorce, the debts and property accumulated by you and your spouse will be pushed to the middle of a hypothetical negotiating table to be divided by you and your spouse.
Separate property is a property you or your spouse acquired before or during your marriage via gift or inheritance. Again, the presumption is that all property you and your spouse own is community property, so you will have to prove that an item is your separate property if your spouse contends it is community property.
Dividing community property in a divorce
If you and your spouse cannot negotiate a division of your community estate, the alternative is to take your case to court and have the judge decide how to do so. The legal standard in Texas that a judge will use to divide your community estate is based on a "just and right" division.
When dividing up the community estate, many things will be considered, including:
- The separate estates of you and your spouse
- the children each of you have
- primary responsibility to support
- your debts
The popular notion is that a judge would split your estate down the middle in a divorce. While this is possible, it is not a certainty. Those other factors I just mentioned are considered strongly by judges, and you cannot know exactly how the judge will feel about your circumstances heading into a trial.
Temporary Orders and an Introduction to Conservatorship- Divorce essentials to be posted tomorrow
Please come back to read more about divorce tomorrow as we begin to discuss some "meat and potatoes" issues in divorce cases, including temporary orders and the Conservatorship of children. At least one of these issues will affect every person going through a divorce- including you.
If you have any questions about anything you've read today, please do not hesitate to contact the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC. We can schedule a free-of-charge consultation for you where your questions can be answered by one of our licensed family law attorneys. Thank you for your time and interest in reading this blog post, and please come on back tomorrow for more helpful information.
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Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC | Houston, Texas Divorce Lawyers
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Our divorce lawyers in Houston, TX, are skilled at listening to your goals during this trying process and developing a strategy to meet those goals. Contact the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC by calling (281) 810-9760 or submit your contact information in our online form. The Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC, handles Divorce cases in Houston, Texas, Cypress, Klein, Humble, Kingwood, Tomball, The Woodlands, Houston, the FM 1960 area, or surrounding areas, including Harris County, Montgomery County, Liberty County, Chambers County, Galveston County, Brazoria County, Fort Bend County, and Waller County.