As we begin to enter the last stretch of the school year before summer vacation, you may have run into some issue in your child's school life that has caused you to reflect upon whether or not it would be a good idea to have them homeschooled rather than attend the public or private school that they are currently enrolled in.
However, your perceptions and opinions on this subject may be the polar opposite of those of your ex-spouse. Coming together and working out a solution given differing opinions can be hard enough for married people but is even more daunting for divorced parents.
The Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC, has seen divorced parents disagree sharply on whether or not their child should be homeschooled. The question goes beyond whether or not the public or private schools in their area are "satisfactory" and hits on subjects relating to parenting philosophy and religion.
An example from our office related to homeschooling
A prior client of the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC, saw their child, who lived with her mother primarily, enrolled in a homeschool program rather than the public school that she had been attending for the entire length of her academic career.
This gentleman came into our office to see whether his ex-wife could do this without his permission. Let's walk through the discussion that he and I shared.
We pulled a copy of his Final Decree of Divorce off the Harris County District Clerk's website and had a look at what it said. Parental rights and duties are laid out in a section in Final Decrees called Conservatorship. Every parent in Texas shares rights and responsibilities with their child's other parent. Whether or not the parents are married depends on how those rights and duties are allocated.
Specifically, issues related to educational, psychiatric, and medical decisions are outlined within your court order. Many divorced parents have to work together to change their child's educational path. If you are in this position, you need to contact your ex-spouse to determine what they think about a particular change you would like to see made for your child.
If your ex-spouse agrees that a change needs to be made, but you cannot agree on the specific shift in question, then a third party is usually specified in the order who can play a tiebreaker.
Our former client's order had him and his ex-wife sharing most of the rights and duties of raising the child, but his wife almost entirely held educational rights. This got him to remember that he was traveling a lot for work at the time of their divorce and could not be a part of many of the discussions that would be necessary to have if he were to share equally in the rights and duties as to school-related matters.
His ex-wife did have the ability to pull his daughter out of public school and enroll her in a homeschool program. The fact of the matter was that his daughter was not doing well in public school, and he believed that his ex-wife did not take an interest in her education to the degree that he believed to be necessary.
He was now in a place where he could take a more active role in his daughter's education and sought a court order that would send his child back to public school.
What our client needed to show a court to send her back to public school
The quality of the homeschool education that our client's daughter received was the real issue. She was attending an online school that allowed her to work at her own pace and supposedly offered one-on-one tutoring and teaching when and if she needed it in any particular subject.
Licensed, experienced educators taught the classes in Texas on top of that.
Our client was able to gain access to the curriculum for the program that his daughter was going through. It was not detailed compared to what even a primary public school curriculum would ordinarily feature. The program jumped around from subject to subject, and there did not seem to be a common thread on any of the subject matter in any given topic.
I'm not an expert on education whatsoever, but even I could tell this.
In attempting to modify his court order to provide him with an equal say in the academic life of his daughter, our client was able to get access to his daughter's test scores from the online school that showed her doing even worse in the online school than she was in public school. It isn't easy to compare the educational merits of public and online schools in many situations, but test scores are one way to do so.
Further strengthening his case were the attendance records of the child. We were able to show a judge that his daughter was failing to turn in classwork regularly and not checking in for her lessons each day either.
The point we were attempting to argue, that the online environment allowed for missed classes with greater ease than a public school, was hammered home when our client's ex-wife was called to testify.
She noted that the poor attendance record was due to her inability to log her daughter into the online program for sometimes days on end. It came out that his ex-wife not only was not computer savvy but barely knew how to work a computer.
The judge was not impressed by the curriculum, the child's attendance, or grades and saw little benefit to drastically changing a child's educational plan who was already struggling in an environment that offered more excellent support systems.
Couple these factors with the reality that our client's ex-wife enrolled their child in an online school when the mother herself did little research into the program. The judge ordered the child back into public school and allowed our client more significant academic decision-making.
Questions on homeschooling in the context of family law? Contact the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC
As the popularity of homeschooling increases in Texas, it is essential to know how this educational option fits your family's circumstances. The attorneys with the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC, have experience representing clients dealing with these issues, and we would be honored to do the same for you and your family. To learn more about our office and our client's services, please do not hesitate to contact us today.
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