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Evaluating the dollars and cents of your Texas divorce

One way to examine the impact of a divorce is to look at it as a matter of dollars and cents. A business transaction of sorts. Yes, it is more than just a business deal. You and your spouse are not executives hashing out how to divide a company neither of you created. You are in fact two people that at one time or another took a vow to spend the rest of your life together. Now that you have determined that is no longer a realistic option you are seeking a divorce.

It is going to be near impossible for you to disassociate your past life, your family and anything else that came from your marriage from the financial aspects of your case. This is a divorce we’re talking about- perhaps the most personal type of lawsuit that there is. Secondly, the finances we are talking about aren’t the sort that you learned about in college. They are called personal finances for a reason. The matters at issue in your case will be extremely personal on one level or another to you and your spouse.

Over the course of the next few days the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC will be sharing with you some perspective on divorce and personal finances base on our years of experience representing people in our community just like you. Along the way, we hope that you will find these blog posts to be informative and entertaining.

If you have questions about anything that you read please contact our office. We will be happy to walk you through the steps in a divorce and to discuss how your personal circumstances can potentially impact the divorce process in Texas

Getting organized is the first step to getting a hold on your personal finances

Nobody enters into a divorce happy. That is perhaps the understatement of the century. The fact is that as you proceed in your divorce journey you will accumulate questions just as frequently as you acquire information to answer those questions. Do not worry that you are constantly coming up with questions to ask your attorney because without those questions you will not gain any information and cannot feel better and proceed with confidence into the later stages of your divorce.

Financial questions are some of the most important that you will encounter in your divorce case. The fact is you will need to get a firm grasp on your finances in order to achieve any of your goals in your divorce. The start of this process is to collect and organize financial information and records on issues large and small.

Your family budget (if you have one) is a good place to start. In the temporary orders phase of your case, a judge may have to determine who will be paying what bills, who will be staying in the family home and other immediate financial considerations that need to be made. I say that a judge “may” have to determine these issues because in all likelihood you and your spouse will agree in mediation how these responsibilities will be split up during the divorce.

Use the divorce to really key in and learn what your monthly spending habits are. If you have never operated off of a budget before there is no better time than the present to start doing so. You likely never knew just how much money you earned or how far it could be stretched. At the same time you also likely never knew just how much money you spent on things you don’t really need. If you are the spouse who was not the one in charge of finances then this is going to be an especially eye-opening experience for you.

How to plan your personal finances before a divorce

Planning for your divorce from a financial perspective does not mean hiding assets, attempting to devalue property or anything like that.

That does not mean that you shouldn’t do certain things prior to a divorce that can help you set yourself up for the next phase of your life, however. If you can help your divorce proceed smoother and reduce clutter in your financial portfolio without hurting the position of your spouse then you should do so.

Your financial portfolio as separate but interrelated pieces

The parts of your financial portfolio that are likely to be relevant to your divorce- your home, your bank accounts, your investments, your retirement savings are all separate issues when it comes to negotiations in a divorce but are also interrelated. Imagine taking each one and pushing them to the middle of a table.

It is up to you and your spouse to move them around in a manner that is agreeable to both of you. What you decide to do in regard to one of those items may affect how negotiation on other proceeds and vice versa. Consider what your future will look like one, five, ten and twenty years down the road to fairly appreciate the impact of your negotiation methods.

An opportunity to consider your divorce to be a gray cloud with a silver lining, if you have not thought that much in depth about a financial plan for yourself moving forward a divorce will force you to consider the future and the role your finances will play in it. Even though you and your spouse may have made mistakes together when it comes to your finances a divorce allows you to move forward without he or she to drag you down with bad decisions on a repeated basis.

Other considerations as you move towards a divorce

We all have preconceived notions of how we should operate in terms of finances. As you enter into a divorce you take those preconceived notions with you and come face to face with either a realization that you have been doing well in keeping your finances under control, or that you may need to reevaluate your position on personal finances and how they relate to you and your family. In the case of a divorce, you should have a firm grasp on what your goals are because in a divorce you are not the only person who will have a say so over how the proceedings occur.

Another topic that nearly always come up in a divorce is the role that your friends and family will play in your case. These folks serve a necessary role as a support system for you during this difficult time. They will be the folks that you lean on for moral support as you proceed with your case.

Where these folks can cause problems (inadvertently for the most part) is when they start to give you advice about your situation when they are not especially qualified to do so. Well-meaning but bad advice can put you in a bad position if you start to rely upon it. Lean on your lawyer for legal advice and on your support system if you need a distraction from your case. If you combine the role of lawyer and friend you will be in a worse position as far as your divorce is concerned.

Stay tuned to tomorrow’s blog post when we begin to discuss how to put all the different aspects of your financial life together

In tomorrow’s blog post we will go over how you can take all the different areas of your financial life and combine them into an easier to digest format for both you and your attorney to review. Organization is key and if you have not been the most organized person in the world before, a divorce will give you a shock to your system (in a good way).

Questions about the subject matter we discussed today or any other in Texas family law? Please contact the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC today if so. We offer free of charge consultations with our licensed family law attorneys. It would be an honor to sit down with you and address any questions you may have. We can help you create a roadmap for your case so you know what is likely to happen and how best to prepare.

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Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC | Spring, Texas Divorce Lawyers

The Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC routinely handles matters that affect children and families. If you have questions regarding divorce, it's important to speak with one of our Spring, TX Divorce Lawyers right away to protect your rights.

Our divorce lawyers in Spring TX are skilled at listening to your goals during this trying process and developing a strategy to meet those goals. Contact Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC by calling (281) 810-9760 or submit your contact information in our online form. The Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC handles Divorce cases in Spring, Texas, Cypress, Klein, Humble, Kingwood, Tomball, The Woodlands, the FM 1960 area, or surrounding areas, including Harris County, Montgomery County, Liberty County, Chambers County, Galveston County, Brazoria County, Fort Bend County and Waller County.

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