Child custody decisions hinge on a determination of what is in your child's best interest. If you are a known user of marijuana, your use of the drug will be viewed in terms of how often you partake in front of your child, how old your child is, and what effect your drug use has on your child.
It is almost impossible to argue that using marijuana would not affect in some way on your ability to parent your child. I don't say this as an advocate for or against the use of the drug, just as a parent and attorney who has represented clients who use marijuana if you plan to argue that marijuana is nowhere near as dangerous to your body or your family as other drugs then you ought to reconsider that position because based on my experiences it is not going to be a winning argument for you.
Courts do not relish the opportunity to remove visitation privileges from a parent with their child, but drug use is an instance where this is done with regularity. In extreme instances, your parental rights may even be terminated against your will if the drug use is severe and threatens the well-being of your child. In any event, the extent to which you will be allowed visitation with your child depends in large part on the circumstances surrounding your use of marijuana.
The more things change, the more they stay the same.
Increasingly, states are decriminalizing marijuana and allowing people to possess small amounts of the drug for personal use. On the federal level, marijuana possession is still a crime, and any drug use is barred by federal law. Texas has not decriminalized marijuana, and most family court judges treat any drug use as a reason to restrict visitation for you with your child severely.
The bottom line is that your usage of marijuana is seen to expose your child to an unreasonable threat of harm. Child Protective Services (CPS) may become involved as drug use is often seen as a form of child neglect. It would help if you protect your child, and despite what you believe, a judge is likely to find that your drug usage places an undue amount of potential harm on your child.
All in all, how your case turns out will largely depend on the individual circumstances of your case. The extent of your drug use and how much of it has been in front of your child has directly/indirectly affected him, or the judge will examine her. Using marijuana in front of your child is a huge red flag for most judges. The fact remains that when you use marijuana, your senses are altered, and you cannot protect your child or act as quickly should the need arise. If your child is young, you could potentially leave your child vulnerable to finding and ingesting the drugs. In the same way, your child could get into untold other household temptations like cleaning supplies, open electrical outlets, or sharp objects like knives while you are utilizing marijuana.
Whether or not actual harm occurred to your child, your marijuana use will be judged harshly.
You may be in a position to tell a judge that despite your drug use, your child has never been injured or directly harmed as a result. I have had a client tell a judge that because she smokes marijuana after the kids go to bed that there is no way her children could have been harmed as a result. This is the kind of logic that most judges are irritated to hear and will not, in all likelihood, help your case.
Suppose that you were smoking, and you fell asleep in your chair. A lit cigarette could catch your clothing or other items on fire, leading to an injury to yourself. If you are your child's only caretaker, this puts you in a position where you are home alone with a child and have injured yourself due to your having used marijuana. Likewise, if your using marijuana renders you unable to protect your child, then you would be unable to protect them from intruders or other people who should not be in your home.
The big question is whether or not you neglected your child by using marijuana. If you are neglectful, not only will you not fare well in your child custody case, but CPS will be contacted, and an investigation will be taken up. In these situations, it is not uncommon to have a parent's parental rights be put under the microscope, with a result being that your rights could be terminated.
If you are a chronic marijuana smoker, you will likely fail a drug test administered to you. A positive test means that you will have severely curtailed your visitation with your child. You and the child's other parent will have to decide upon a third party who can supervise your visitation periods with your child. On the other hand, if you only used marijuana once then, you may pass a drug test depending upon how long ago you used the drug. In this event, you could get a stern warning from the judge but may escape without punishment.
What if your significant other is a marijuana user? Does that make a difference?
In many ways, it does not matter if you are the person who uses marijuana or if your spouse or significant other is the person using the drug. For instance, I had a recent case where a client's boyfriend used marijuana to treat his pain about failed back surgery. The judge admonished the client for allowing a man who uses drugs into her home, despite a reasonable explanation for the drug use and the children having never been exposed to his having done drugs.
If you make a conscious decision to bring a person into your child's life, you are placing the safety of your child in their hands. The decision to use drugs is a sign that your child's safety may not be at the forefront of their minds. Think about any other aspect of your life that may be viewed within the lens of a person who uses drugs. In the situation I am discussing from my recent case, this family had an infestation of fleas in the home, and those fleas bit the children. Our client was thus forced to present a case centered around drug use and fleas. This is an uphill battle for any client to undertake.
Ask yourself, does your use of marijuana benefit your child?
The simple question is whether or not you are using illegal drugs benefits or hurts your child somehow. There are no benefits that are using drugs has on your children that I am aware of. Many negative consequences are inherent in drug use, and I have outlined many of them for you in today's blog post. Choose wisely on whether or not you want to bring a person into your child's life who uses drugs, as well.
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