Here is how you write a great post-nuptial agreement in Texas

Have you ever wondered what would happen to your hard-earned assets if your marriage hits a rocky patch? We get it – thinking about divorce is no one’s idea of a good time. But let’s face it, life can throw curveballs when we least expect them. That’s where postnuptial agreements come to the rescue! They’re like superheroes for your financial well-being.

Short answer: Postnuptial agreements are the secret weapon to safeguarding your assets and ensuring a smooth transition if the unfortunate happens – and trust us, you’ll want to stick around to find out more.

Picture this: You’ve built a successful business empire from the ground up, fueled by sleepless nights, endless cups of coffee, and sheer determination. But the thought of losing it all in the event of a divorce sends shivers down your spine. Or maybe you’ve inherited a family fortune that you want to protect for future generations. Whatever your situation, a postnuptial agreement can provide the shield of security you crave.

In our comprehensive guide to postnuptial agreements, we’ll delve into the legal formalities and requirements you must navigate in the great state of Texas. We’ll explore the ins and outs of financial disclosure and asset division, ensuring you have the knowledge to make informed decisions.

But wait, there’s more! We’ll uncover the secrets to crafting an ironclad agreement that stands up to scrutiny in court. And yes, we’ll spill the beans on how to avoid common pitfalls that can render your postnuptial agreement useless.

But what about the kiddos, you ask? Don’t worry, we’ve got you covered. We’ll discuss the limitations on child-related provisions and shed light on considerations for children from previous marriages. After all, their well-being matters just as much as your financial security.

Ready to embark on this epic journey through the realm of postnuptial agreements? Buckle up, because we’ve got real-life examples, practical tips, and all the expert advice you need to navigate this uncharted territory. Your assets deserve protection, your future deserves security, and we’re here to help you achieve just that.

So, grab a cup of your favorite brew, cozy up in your comfiest chair, and let’s dive headfirst into the world of postnuptial agreements. Your financial peace of mind awaits!

Postnuptial Agreements: Protect Your Assets, Secure Your Future!

Like any other legal document, there are certain requirements that must in place for a postnuptial agreement to be effective. The Texas Family Code defines many of those requirements. In addition, there are other protections for spouses that can and should be included in the agreement. Today’s blog post from the Law Office of Bryan Fagan will walk you through the essential components of a Texas postnuptial agreement.

What does the law in Texas have to say about post nuptial agreements?

A postnuptial agreement is a contract under the law. This means that agreement must be in writing and signed by both you and your spouse. An oral postnuptial agreement, no matter how in depth or well thought out, is not enforceable by a judge. However, just because you slap words on paper and attach your signatures to it does not mean you have a valid postnuptial agreement.

You and your spouse must have both signed the agreement fully understanding what the document says and what it means to your future. The tough part about proving that you didn’t have a full understanding is that it is typically presumed that once you sign a document (as an adult), you have read and understood the entire document. The burden is squarely on your shoulders if you want to come back and try to argue that you did not understand a portion of the agreement and therefore the document is not enforceable.

You have to disclose all known assets and liabilities to your spouse before the agreement can be determined to be enforceable. Do you know your spouse’s financial situation- both during your divorce and before? If not, then you may have grounds to argue that the agreement is not enforceable. You can waive your right to be told a full accounting of your spouse’s liabilities and assets and in order to bypass any attack on the enforceability of the agreement this is often times a smart thing to do.

The other thing that you and your spouse need to keep in mind is that the agreement cannot be so one sided as to be unconscionable. If you are placed into a significantly weaker position compared to your spouse when you signed this agreement, then there are decent odds that it could be unenforceable. As long as the agreement is not so over top favorable to you or your spouse and does not break any state laws you should be good to go as far as enforceability.

What else should go into your postnuptial agreement

Now that we have covered the basics of what must be in (and out) of your postnuptial agreement for it to be considered an enforceable contract, we can get into what additional language you may want to include to protect yourself and your spouse. The bottom line is that you and your spouse do not want to go through all the effort of negotiating and signing the postnuptial agreement only to find out that there are going to be legal problems between the two of you down the road.

One of the reasons why it is a good idea for you to have your own attorney and for your spouse to have their own attorney during the process of negotiating and drafting a postnuptial agreement is that the attorneys will be able to draft a unique document for you and your spouse to sign. What you want to avoid is a fill-in-the-blank type document that you can pull from the internet for free. If there is a disagreement over language in the future and you take your generic postnuptial agreement to court it may not be enforceable.

Have an attorney (both of you)

No law in Texas mandates that both you and your spouse have attorneys during the negotiation and drafting of a postnuptial agreement. However, as I mentioned a moment ago it is a good idea for both you and your spouse to be represented by separate attorneys. The reason is that while you are married, your interests may not be identical financially. Having your own attorney means that you will be given specific advice that you know is intended only to benefit you. Sharing an attorney creates a situation where neither you nor your spouse can be sure that your advice is intended solely to benefit you.

Have a judge declare the agreement as valid and enforceable

Unlike with a child custody or divorce case, you do not have to go before a judge prior to the end of a postnuptial agreement negotiation. All you have to do is keep a hold of the document for your records. There is no requirement that the document be filed. There is no family court cause number attached to the document.

Because of this, I would recommend that you file a motion with the family court in your county wherein you ask a judge to issue a ruling as to whether or not the agreement is valid and enforceable. This will let you know if you have to go back and change anything about the agreement for it to be declared enforceable.

Now that we have gone over some general information about postnuptial agreements, I wanted to share with you some information that is a little bit more specific in nature.

For instance, a question that I receive a great deal regarding postnuptial agreements is whether or not there are any assets that you and your spouse would not be able to keep as separate property in the postnuptial agreement. The answer would be that all assets owned by either spouse before your marriage can remain your separate property.

Issues regarding children and postnuptial agreements

Unless you and your spouse agree to something related to your child that is found to be in that child’s best interests the court will not allow anything regarding a child within postnuptial agreement to be enforced. The best interests of your child will be determined at the time your agreement is signed. For instance, it can never be found that any provision within a postnuptial agreement that is related to creating a maximum level of child support is ever valid.

The best explanation for this would be that your circumstances will change over time, as will your child’s. There is no way that you or your spouse can predict what needs your child will have- especially if that child has not even been born yet. If you are trying to insert language into the agreement that declares one of you as the future primary conservator, this also will not be allowed. Nobody can predict which parent would be in a better position to be named as the primary conservator of your child. Since there is no way to accurately predict what will be in a child’s best interest in the future, courts will not allow you to include much of anything concerning your child within a postnuptial agreement.

More on child support and postnuptial agreements

The Texas Family Code specifically states that your children’s right to receive child support cannot be affected negatively by a prenuptial agreement but does not state anything regarding a postnuptial agreement. A good rule of thumb to operate under, however, is that no contract that could be construed to operate against the best interests of your children can be held to be enforceable. Only contracts that benefit your children are enforceable under Texas law.

So how does this apply to any provisions you intend to insert within your postnuptial agreement? For starters, I wouldn’t bother including anything in the agreement unless it expressly benefits your child. For instance, if you attempt to limit you future liability to pay child support, college expenses or anything of the like then you can safely assume that it will not be held as enforceable. On the other hand, if you promise to pay a certain amount of child support or college expenses then there is a chance that provisions like this will be found to be enforceable.

For the most part, it is pointless to attempt to set a specific amount of child support to be paid in the future should a divorce occur. As I mentioned earlier, these type of provisions cannot accurately predict the amount of care that your child will need. I would save these issues for the divorce and not bother negotiating on them in the postnuptial agreement.

What can be done regarding children from a prior marriage?

Suppose you have children from a prior marriage and have property already promised them as part of an inheritance. In that case, you can specify in your postnuptial agreement that certain parts of your community estate are to be treated as your separate property. This will allow you to have your will reflect your wishes if you were to die while married to your current spouse.

What is the bottom line here?

I keep raising points that show children can be incorporated into postnuptial agreements, but I do not think children should be a part of yours. Life comes at your fast, marriages begin and marriages end. Your frame of mind and the circumstances of your life change. With that in mind, the purpose of a postnuptial agreement is to not allow those changes to impact the way you want your assets and debts to be handled in a future divorce.

While this is ok for property and debts it is not ok for children. While ok right now, your child could develop a sickness or impairment that requires around-the-clock care. While I pray that this will never happen to your family- it could. Limiting the amount of care that you or your spouse would be obligated to pay towards raising a disabled child is unconscionable. It’s not what you would want or what your spouse would want. Arguing that the likelihood of something like this happening is so low is not a good response, either.

Final thoughts on post nuptial agreements

There are a lot of moving pieces associated with postnuptial agreements. By negotiating with your spouse when you are on good terms with one another, you bypass more painful negotiations while in the midst of a divorce. You want to have an attorney by your side not only to help you plan for the negotiations but to help you execute on that plan during your negotiation day.

Finally, you want that agreement to be drafted well and reflect your and your spouse’s intent. The agreement must be enforceable in court or else it is not worth the paper that it was printed on. Hiring an experienced family law attorney to represent you is a smart play. With as much as is at stake in the process of drafting a postnuptial agreement you want to be able to walk away from it feeling like you did something positive for yourself and your family. Avoiding mistakes is the best way to do this and having an experienced family law attorney by your side is a great advantage to have.

Legal Formalities and Requirements for Postnuptial Agreements in Texas

Regarding postnuptial agreements in the Lone Star State, certain legal formalities and requirements must be met for the agreement to hold up in court. A postnuptial agreement is essentially a contract, which means it must be treated as such under the law. This entails putting the agreement in writing and having both you and your spouse sign it. No matter how well thought out, an oral agreement won’t cut it in the eyes of a judge.

However, it’s crucial to understand that merely putting pen to paper and signing the agreement doesn’t automatically make it valid. Both parties must fully understand the document’s contents and implications for their future. It’s worth noting that once you sign a document as an adult, the general assumption is that you have read and comprehended its entirety. If you later try to argue that you didn’t understand a specific portion of the agreement, the burden of proof falls squarely on your shoulders.

Another essential requirement is full disclosure of all known assets and liabilities. Before an agreement can be deemed enforceable, you and your spouse must share complete information about your financial situations. This transparency ensures that both parties enter into the agreement with a clear understanding of each other’s financial standing. While you can waive your right to a full accounting of your spouse’s assets and liabilities, having this information is often prudent to avoid any challenges to the agreement’s enforceability down the line.

Validity and Enforceability of Postnuptial Agreements in Texas

To ensure the validity and enforceability of a postnuptial agreement in Texas, it’s crucial to avoid creating a document that is one-sided to the point of being unconscionable. If the agreement places one spouse in a significantly weaker position compared to the other, it runs the risk of being deemed unenforceable. As long as the agreement is fair and reasonable, without violating any state laws, it can be upheld in court.

Financial Disclosure and Asset Division in Postnuptial Agreements

A key component of a postnuptial agreement is the financial disclosure and division of assets. This agreement allows both spouses to outline how they want their assets and debts to be handled in the event of a divorce. It’s essential to provide a comprehensive overview of your financial situation and disclose all assets and liabilities. This transparency enables both parties to make informed decisions and ensures that the division of assets is fair and equitable.

Unconscionability and Fairness Considerations in Postnuptial Agreements

In postnuptial agreements, it’s crucial to avoid creating provisions that are so one-sided as to be considered unconscionable. The court will assess the overall fairness of the agreement and whether it provides a reasonable balance between the rights and obligations of both spouses. If the agreement heavily favors one party and puts the other at a severe disadvantage, it may be deemed unconscionable and unenforceable.

The Role of Attorneys in Negotiating and Drafting Postnuptial Agreements

When it comes to postnuptial agreements, each spouse should have their own attorney. While there is no legal requirement in Texas for both parties to have separate legal representation, having independent attorneys can help ensure that each spouse’s interests are adequately protected. Your attorney will provide personalized advice and guidance tailored to your specific circumstances. Sharing an attorney may create conflicts of interest and raise questions about the impartiality of the advice given.

Filing and Seeking Court Validation of Postnuptial Agreements in Texas

Unlike child custody or divorce cases, postnuptial agreements do not need to be presented to a judge before they are effective. There is no requirement to file the agreement, and it does not receive a family court cause number. However, seeking court validation can provide added security and peace of mind. Filing a motion with the family court to obtain a ruling on the agreement’s validity and enforceability can ensure that it meets all necessary legal requirements.

Assets and Liabilities That Can Be Designated as Separate Property in Postnuptial Agreements

In a postnuptial agreement, both parties can designate certain assets and liabilities as separate property. This means that these items would be treated as individually owned and not subject to division in the event of a divorce. Typically, any assets owned by either spouse before the marriage can remain separate property. It’s important to clearly define which assets and liabilities fall under this category in the postnuptial agreement to avoid any confusion or disputes later on.

Type of Property


Assets before Marriage

Any assets owned by either spouse prior to the marriage can be designated as separate property.

Inherited Assets

Assets received through inheritance, including money, real estate, or valuable possessions.


Gifts given specifically to one spouse and not to the couple as a whole.

Property Agreed Upon

Property that both spouses agree to designate as separate property, even if acquired during the marriage.

Compensation for Personal Injuries

Any compensation received for personal injuries, such as settlements or judgments.

Separate Business Interests

Business interests held by one spouse prior to the marriage or acquired during the marriage as separate property.

Certain Debts

Debts incurred by one spouse before the marriage or after separation can be designated as separate debts.

Limitations on Child-Related Provisions in Postnuptial Agreements

When it comes to children, there are limitations on what can be included in a postnuptial agreement. In Texas, unless both parties agree to provisions that are deemed to be in the child’s best interests, the court will not enforce them. The court determines the best interests of the child at the time the agreement is signed, and it cannot allow provisions that establish a maximum level of child support. The unpredictability of a child’s future needs and circumstances prevents the inclusion of such provisions in a postnuptial agreement.

Child Support and Postnuptial Agreements in Texas

The Texas Family Code explicitly states that a child’s right to receive child support cannot be negatively affected by a prenuptial agreement. However, it does not address this issue specifically in the context of postnuptial agreements. As a general rule, any contract that goes against the best interests of the children involved is unlikely to be deemed enforceable. Provisions that benefit the children and ensure their well-being are more likely to be upheld in court.

Considerations for Children from Prior Marriages in Postnuptial Agreements

Suppose you have children from a previous marriage and have promised them certain assets as part of their inheritance. In that case, you can specify in your postnuptial agreement that certain portions of your community estate should be treated as your separate property. This provision allows you to ensure that your will reflects your intentions in case of your demise while married to your current spouse.

Balancing Asset and Debt Division with the Needs of Children in Postnuptial Agreements

When drafting a postnuptial agreement, it’s essential to strike a balance between asset and debt division while considering the needs of any children involved. While setting specific amounts for child support or college expenses may be tempting, it’s often more practical to address these issues during a divorce rather than in the postnuptial agreement. Such provisions may not accurately anticipate the evolving needs of children over time, making it advisable to save these discussions for future divorce proceedings.

Importance of Reviewing and Updating Postnuptial Agreements Over Time

Postnuptial agreements should not be considered static documents. Life circumstances change, and reviewing and updating the agreement periodically is important to ensure it remains relevant and effective. Major life events such as the birth of a child, changes in financial situations, or significant shifts in marital dynamics may warrant revisiting and modifying the agreement as needed. Regular review and updates can help maintain the integrity and relevance of the postnuptial agreement over time.

Benefits and Advantages of Postnuptial Agreements for Couples

Postnuptial agreements offer several benefits and advantages for couples. They provide a sense of security and predictability by outlining how assets and debts will be handled in the event of a divorce. Postnuptial agreements can protect individual assets, safeguard family businesses, and streamline divorce by pre-determining asset division. They can also address unique financial circumstances or concerns that may arise during the course of a marriage. By proactively addressing these matters, couples can potentially reduce conflict and stress in the event of a future divorce.

Common Mistakes to Avoid in the Negotiation and Drafting of Postnuptial Agreements

Negotiating and drafting a postnuptial agreement requires careful consideration and attention to detail. To ensure its effectiveness, it’s important to avoid common mistakes. Some key mistakes to avoid include:

  • Rushing the process: Take the time to fully understand the agreement and its implications. Don’t rush through negotiations or overlook important details.
  • Inadequate financial disclosure: Failing to disclose all assets and liabilities can jeopardize the enforceability of the agreement. Provide complete and accurate financial information to ensure transparency.
  • Unreasonable provisions: Avoid creating provisions that are heavily one-sided or unconscionable. The agreement should be fair and reasonable to both parties.
  • Lack of independent legal representation: Each spouse should have their own attorney to protect their interests and avoid conflicts of interest.
  • Failure to review and update: Neglecting to review and update the agreement regularly may result in outdated provisions that no longer reflect the couple’s current circumstances.

The Significance of Experienced Family Law Attorneys in the Postnuptial Agreement Process

Having experienced family law attorneys by your side during negotiating and drafting a postnuptial agreement is invaluable. These attorneys can provide expert guidance, ensure compliance with legal requirements, and help you navigate complex issues. They can help you avoid common pitfalls, protect your rights, and ensure the enforceability of the agreement. With the stakes involved in postnuptial agreements, having skilled legal representation can provide peace of mind and help you make informed decisions.

Remember, a well-crafted postnuptial agreement can provide security and clarity in a marriage. By understanding the legal formalities, requirements, and considerations, you can confidently navigate the process and protect your interests.

Secure Your Future with a Postnuptial Agreement: Because Love and Finances Can Coexist!

Congratulations, you’ve made it to the grand finale! We’ve covered everything from the legal nitty-gritty to the heartfelt considerations when it comes to postnuptial agreements. Now, it’s time to tie it all together like the perfect bow on a gift.

Short answer: Postnuptial agreements are the ultimate love-infused armor for your finances. They empower you to protect your assets, shield your family’s future, and gracefully navigate the choppy waters of divorce. And trust us, you’ll be glad you stuck around to discover their power!

Picture this: You and your significant other, hand in hand, walking through the highs and lows of life. Your love is a force to be reckoned with, but so are your bank accounts! As you embark on this journey together, it’s crucial to remember that open conversations about money are the secret sauce to a harmonious relationship. And what better way to solidify your financial foundation than with a postnuptial agreement?

By taking the time to craft a thoughtful and comprehensive postnuptial agreement, you’re not only protecting your individual interests but also strengthening the bond you share. It’s like creating a financial roadmap that respects your unique circumstances, hopes, and dreams.

Just imagine the peace of mind that comes with knowing your assets are shielded, your debts are accounted for, and your children’s futures are secure. Life may throw its curveballs, but you’ll be ready to tackle them head-on, armed with the certainty that you’ve taken proactive steps to safeguard what matters most.

So, whether you’re a business mogul, a creative genius, or a humble dreamer, remember that love and finances can coexist harmoniously. Embrace the power of a postnuptial agreement as your partner in life, guiding you through the ups and downs of marriage.

Now, take a deep breath and embark on this exciting journey of financial empowerment. Seek out expert guidance, share your dreams and concerns with your partner, and let the magic of a well-crafted postnuptial agreement be the ultimate testament to your love and commitment.

Cheers to love, security, and a future brimming with possibilities! Your financial fortress awaits – it’s time to make it a reality!

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