Depending on the dynamics of your family, you may consult with a family law attorney and decide to file for divorce without first having discussed the subject with your spouse. Alternatives would be to attend counseling or attempt to work out your marriage issues on your own without legal assistance.
There can be circumstances that necessitate a quick removal of yourself and your children from a marriage where either of these two options would not make sense. However, for most people reading this blog, it is recommended that you attempt to salvage your marriage before making any hasty decisions regarding a divorce.
However, if you decide to move forward with a divorce without first alerting your spouse, you will need to figure out where and how to have him, or she served. Today’s blog post from the attorneys with the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC, will focus on this issue.
Notification of your spouse of a pending divorce suit
There are three ways to notify your spouse that you have filed for divorce against them. The first example is the easy one. In uncontested divorce cases or have a few issues that need to be negotiated, it is possible to have your spouse sign a Waiver of Citation/Service.
This affidavit states under oath that your spouse did receive the Original Petition for Divorce and that they waive their right to be served with a Citation alerting them to the divorce in a formal manner. This Waiver of Citation/Service would be filed with the court. Theoretically, this is the fastest, most efficient way to get a divorce in Texas.
The traditional and most common method of providing notice to your spouse of a pending divorce case is to personally serve them with the citation and the Original Petition for Divorce.
A constable, sheriff, police officer, or professional process server would collect your Original Petition for Divorce, the citation, and any other documents you filed with your Petition and will serve them up on your spouse at the address you specified in the Petition. When the citation is in the hands of your spouse, then service is complete.
Once service has been completed, the server will file an affidavit with the court stating under oath the service details- when, where, etc. A private process server will work with you to serve your spouse and is more flexible when service attempts can be made. A constable or sheriff will likely tell you when to attempt service upon your spouse.
Finally, the third method of serving notice upon your spouse of a divorce suit is publication or posting at the courthouse. This means of service should only be attempted as a last resort if personal service is not possible. You will need to log all of your attempts at kindness and then file a motion with the court to allow service by publication.
Upon the granting of your motion by the court, the district clerk will post your citation on the courthouse steps or at whatever location your county designates on the courthouse grounds. A certain amount of time will need to pass before the clerk notifies your court of completing the posting requirement.
Service by publication is accomplished by publishing your citation in the newspaper in the city or town where your spouse was last known to reside. Your court will authorize publication in certain publications, and the District Clerk will see to it that the citation is published there. Proof of publication should be filed with the district clerk’s office once completed.
Filing an Answer
Once you have served your spouse successfully with your Petition for Divorce and the Citation, your spouse then has a deadline to file their Answer before the First Monday following 20 days after your spouse has been served. This applies to whatever service method was chosen- even if your spouse signed a Waiver.
The Answer entitles your spouse to receive notification from the court on court dates or other vital information such as deadlines to file discovery, trial/pre-trial dates, and deadlines to attend mediation.
The critical part about filing an Answer is that by doing so, your spouse keeps you from being able to get a default judgment against them. A default judgment can occur if you properly serve your spouse; they do not file an answer within the twenty-day timeframe I laid out a few paragraphs ago. You have an order drafted and approved by the judge once the sixty-day waiting period has expired. Filing an Answer requires you to negotiate with your spouse for a final order instead of pushing one through that reflects only what you want.
Speaking of the sixty-day waiting period…
Your court cannot grant your divorce until your Original Petition for Divorce has been on file for sixty days. Believe it or not, many couples use this time to figure out if a divorce is the best course of action for them. It is not uncommon for me to receive a phone call from a client telling me that they do not want to move forward with a divorce after all.
The other purpose of the sixty-day waiting period is to allow you and your spouse to work out an agreement on any outstanding issues in your case. Children and property issues abound in a divorce, and the two months in between filing and resolving a divorce can act as a reasonable period to negotiate on those issues. Disagreeing with your spouse can result in having to go before a judge in a trial or, first, a temporary orders hearing.
Temporary Orders Hearing
Once your divorce has been filed, you and your spouse will need to figure out how to divide responsibilities and your children for the duration of the divorce. Which of you will pay what bill, and what will the visitation schedule with the children look like? To whom will your children reside primarily? These will be the ground rules for your divorce to make sure the status quo is maintained as much as possible before the divorce can be finalized.
If you and your spouse cannot agree in mediation or informal settlement negotiation, your case will go before a judge for a temporary orders hearing.
A temporary orders hearing is a mini-trial where you and your spouse will present arguments on the issues that I mentioned in the previous paragraph. Once all of the evidence has been offered, the judge will decide on what they believe is fair and what is in your child’s best interests. Remember that what ends up being ordered in temporary orders is largely what you can expect final orders to look like.
More on the different phases of a divorce case- tomorrow’s blog post from the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC
Join us tomorrow as we continue discussing the middle phase of a divorce case. If you have questions on this subject or any other in family law, please do not hesitate to contact the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC, today.
Our team of licensed family law attorneys would be honored to meet with you free of charge to answer your questions and prepare you for what your life could look like before, during, and after filing a family law case.
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