Follow these steps to win your Texas family law case

Picture this: You’re standing at a crossroads, facing a path you never thought you’d have to travel. It’s the world of divorce, and it’s like navigating a maze blindfolded. But fear not! We’re here to guide you through this journey with some divorce tactics that’ll make you feel like you’ve got a secret map to victory.

So, what’s the short answer to winning your divorce case? It’s all about mastering the art of strategic divorce tactics. In this blog, we’re going to spill the beans on how to up your game and emerge victorious. From choosing the perfect attorney to keeping your emotions in check, we’ve got the scoop on it all. So, grab a cup of coffee and let’s dive into the world of divorce tactics to win!

Follow these steps to win your Texas family law case

Suppose that you are going through a divorce and are beginning the process of hiring an attorney. How would you go about doing that? Would you drive up and down the busiest street in your area of town and look at the names on the buildings around your home and make a decision that way? Sounds a lot like walking up and down the snack food aisle and picking a bag of chips based on how snazzy the packaging is. You’ll probably take a bite when you get home and be disappointed that the chips don’t taste as good as the packaging made them out to be.

Hiring an attorney to represent you in a family law case is sort of like this. You can do a quick run-through of the attorneys in your area and make a selection based on how their name looks on a sign and you may get lucky. That may end up being the best attorney in the world for you and your family. Or you may be disappointed. That lawyer may not even be a family law attorney- he or she could be a general practice lawyer who takes whatever case walks through their door because their landlord charges a lot of money to keep the lawyer’s name lit up outside on the sign in front of their building.

What you should consider doing is research into the attorney that you hire. Don’t hire a lawyer because their office furniture is nice. Don’t hire a lawyer because you think that person “looks like an attorney” (whatever an attorney is supposed to look like based on your opinion). Ultimately if the attorney’s office furniture looks really nice it’s probably because the lawyer paid a lot of money for it. If it was purchased with a credit card he or she needs to pay that card off and will do it by charging you and the other clients that lawyer represents a lot of money in all likelihood.

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Finding a good attorney is important. Finding a good attorney who makes you feel confident is even more important. Finding a good attorney, who makes you feel confident and that you can afford is the most important thing. You can have all the legal knowledge in the world in the form of your attorney but if you find out halfway through your case that you can no longer afford to pay the attorney’s fees you will soon be looking for another attorney. Your rather expensive attorney will turn and file a motion to withdraw from your case as soon as you are unable to pay your monthly fee.

All of this is to say that there are so many components to a family law case that to not pay attention to each one would be to do yourself a huge disservice. In today’s blog post from the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC we will discuss how to manage and succeed at your family law case in Texas.

There’s a first time for everything

Most of the people that hire our office to represent them are going through a family law case for the first time ever. Many of these people have never had any sort of involvement with the legal system before or had even been inside of a courthouse. Rather than think of this as a disadvantage, I will usually tell these folks that in my opinion it is a sign of a life well lived if you have never had to become involved with the courts before your divorce or child custody case. These cases are not fun but they are, many times, essential to your life.

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I’ve already waxed poetic about hiring an attorney the importance of doing your due diligence and finding one that checks all the boxes that you have set out for yourself. There are lots of attorneys out there for you to choose from, and fortunately for attorneys there are lots of potential clients out there who will make a determination that any one of us is the best fit for him or her. You have that little voice inside your head that tells you to move forward or run the other way when it comes to hiring someone to perform a service for you. Listen to that voice and you will fine in all likelihood when it comes to retaining an attorney to work with you on your family law case.

The initial consultation with an attorney will tell you a lot about that person

If you’ve conducted some research on attorneys and feel confident that you would like to meet with him or her to discuss your case it’s likely that their website provides you with multiple contact methods by which you can set up a meeting. Some attorneys (like the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC, for example) will allow you to set up a free of charge consultation. We will allow you to come into our office and sit with one of our attorneys in order to have a private and confidential meeting about your case, your questions and your concerns.

Many attorneys will charge you money to come in and have a consultation. You will need to make a decision for yourself whether you would be willing or able to pay to speak with a lawyer. Ultimately whatever lawyer you end up deciding to hire you should feel confident that this is the person who will be looking out for you and your family rather than for their own interests. In the consultation you should try to pick up on how well your attorney listens. Attorneys love to hear the sound of their own voices and if you find an attorney who allows you to speak in complete sentences and doesn’t cut you off in the middle of a point then I think this is a good sign that you’ve found a humble, reasonable attorney.

The attorney that you meet with should be able to provide you with some preliminary thoughts on your case and what you may be able to do in terms of working to achieving the goals that you have set out for your case. See if the attorney has been paying attention to what you’ve been saying. You should mention your goals more than once to the attorney. If the attorney starts discussing a possible path for your case and doesn’t incorporate anything that you have told him or her then he or she probably hasn’t been listening to you all that closely.

Hire an attorney only after conducting a thorough review of candidates

If you own a business and put out an advertisement for a job opening it wouldn’t make sense for you to close down the ad as soon as you get one resume. The purpose of putting your ad out there is to accumulate as many qualified candidates as possible, interview the best of the best and only then to make a decision as to what candidate should become an employee. The vetting process is incredibly important when it comes to hiring a new attorney.

ire an attorney only after conducting a thorough review of candidates

Winning Strategies in Divorce Cases

When it comes to navigating the complex landscape of divorce, it’s crucial to arm yourself with the right tactics to achieve the best possible outcome. In this comprehensive guide, we’ll delve into some powerful divorce tactics to help you win your case. From understanding the types of family law cases you may encounter to optimizing your legal strategy, we’ve got you covered.

Understanding the Landscape

Types of Family Law Cases

Before diving into specific tactics, it’s essential to grasp the different types of family law cases commonly encountered in Texas. These include divorce, child custody, child support, spousal support (alimony), property division, and adoption. Each area requires a distinct set of strategies and expertise from your attorney.

Choosing the Right Attorney

Importance of Specialization

One of the most critical decisions you’ll make is selecting the right attorney. Emphasize the significance of hiring a specialist in family law rather than a general practice lawyer. Specialization ensures your attorney is well-versed in the nuances of Texas family law statutes, giving you a competitive edge.

Choosing the Right Attorney

Qualities to Look for in an Attorney

To maximize your chances of success, consider various qualities and qualifications when evaluating potential attorneys. Look for experience, strong communication skills, a solid reputation, a proven track record, and compatibility with your goals and values.

Legal Fees and Payment Options

Understanding attorney fees and payment options is essential. Lawyers may use hourly rates, flat fees, or contingency fees. During the initial consultation, discuss fees openly and transparently to avoid financial surprises down the road.

Initial Consultation Preparation

Preparation is key to making the most of your initial consultation. Gather relevant documents, create a list of questions and concerns, and outline the key details of your case. This proactive approach ensures you make the most of your time with the attorney.

Legal Process Overview

Familiarize yourself with the typical legal process in family law cases in Texas. This may involve filing petitions, engaging in discovery, negotiating settlements, participating in mediation, and appearing in court. Understanding these steps will help you navigate your divorce more effectively.

Role of Mediation

Mediation can be a powerful tool in divorce cases. Explore its role in Texas family law cases and the potential benefits it offers. Resolving disputes through mediation often leads to more satisfactory outcomes compared to lengthy litigation.

Role of Mediation

Legal Aid and Pro Bono Services

For individuals who cannot afford private attorneys, it’s essential to mention the availability of legal aid organizations and pro bono services. Access to justice is a fundamental right, and these resources can be a lifeline for those in need.

Emotional Well-Being

Handling Emotional Stress

Divorce is emotionally challenging. Discuss strategies for managing the stress that often accompanies family law cases. Explore coping mechanisms, support resources, and ways to maintain emotional well-being throughout the process.

Divorce is emotionally challenging. Discuss strategies for managing the stress

Staying Informed

Updates on Texas Family Law

Stay up-to-date with the latest developments in Texas family law. Understanding recent changes and updates ensures you are aware of current legal standards and procedures, giving you a competitive edge in your case.

Exploring Alternatives

Alternative Dispute Resolution Options

Consider alternative dispute resolution options, such as collaborative law and arbitration. These methods can offer advantages in resolving family law disputes, providing a less adversarial and more cooperative approach.


As we wrap up our journey through the world of divorce tactics, imagine this: You, armed with the knowledge of a seasoned pro, confidently stepping into the arena of divorce proceedings. Your attorney is your trusty sidekick, and your strategy is on point. It’s like you’ve transformed into a divorce superhero!

But wait, there’s more to discover. Remember, the world of divorce is complex, and each case is as unique as a fingerprint. So, keep exploring, keep learning, and keep refining your tactics. You’ve got the power to shape your own destiny, and with the right moves, you can emerge from the divorce battlefield as the ultimate victor.

So, here’s to you, the divorce conqueror, and to all the victories waiting just around the corner. Keep reading, keep growing, and keep winning! Your happily ever after is within reach.

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