One of the saddest aspects of being a family lawattorney is running into people – both clients and opposing parties- who are addicted to drugs or alcohol. Drug and alcohol abuse is a trait that is common among families that are failing on some level and the result of those failing is often times divorce.
It is always terrible to have to see families torn apart because one or both parties to a marriage are addicted to a substance that is harming themselves and the relationships with the people that they care most about. The worst situation of all is when a divorce is caused by drugs or alcohol and the parties have a child together.
If you are reading this blog because you or your spouse has a problem with drugs or alcohol I can let you know that the addiction will not play a huge part in your divorce if you all don’t have any children.
The majority of your divorce will be spent attempting to divide up your community estate and unless the addiction has caused you or your spouse to drain community income to go towards an alternative lifestyle then the impact to your divorce case should be minimal. Certainly if this wasting of community funds is present whichever spouse has the addiction will most likely lose some portion of the estate to the sober spouse.
By far the most impact that drug or alcohol abuse can have on a divorce is when children are at issue. This is when the court, in its responsibility to act on behalf of what is in the best interests of your child, must make difficult decisions to do what your judge believes will keep your child safe from potential harm.
The safety of your child is the top priority of the judge in your divorce case
Above all else, your judge is going to do whatever he or she can to ensure that your child is out of harm’s way. The overarching theme of a judge acting in your child’s best interest applies here as it does in any scenario involving your children in the context of your divorce.
With that being said I have seen parents lose any right to have their child at least for a period of time, if it is proven that he or she has abused drugs or alcohol. In a recent case here in Harris County, a client of ours tested positive for multiple illegal drugs and was allowed only one afternoon visit with her son for almost two months until additional time was allowed by the judge.
What sort of special accommodations can happen in a situation like this? One that attorneys will warn their clients about from the outset if he or she suspects you of having a problem with drugs or alcohol is supervised visitation.
This means that a court approved entity (a program that specializes in hosting supervised visits in most cases) will be appointed and you or your spouse will have all contact with your child at one of these facilities. In addition to the emotional toll this can take on a person, the spouse with the addiction problem will have to pay the costs associated with the hosting of the visitation session.
During the time when supervised visits are occurring, a judge will likely order you or your spouse into a program that will help you to deal with your addictions head on. Regular attendance will need to be shown in order to have the supervised visits increased over time.
Once it is shown, in the opinion of your judge, that you or your spouse has managed to remain sober unsupervised visits may be ordered. However, a relapse into your former lifestyle will spell disaster for future attempts to gain more time with your child.
Preparing for a divorce in which substance abuse will be an issue
Suppose that your spouse is an abuser of drugs or alcohol and you are beginning the process of hiring an attorney and filing for divorce. First and foremost I would recommend that you be able to show a court any evidence that you may have of this behavior of your spouse. Photos, videos and social media account postings are all examples of evidence that I have seen clients be able to collect in order to help prove allegations of this sort.
Law enforcement and CPS should be made aware of any dangerous behavior that your spouse has engaged in, especially when that behavior has affected your child.
A former client of the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC had an unfortunate situation where her son was riding in the backseat of the family car as it was being driven by our client’s husband who was intoxicated. Fortunately no one was hurt during this drive but our client’s husband was arrested for driving while intoxicated.
Our client ended up contacting CPS to file a report against her spouse the morning after this arrest. The bottom line is that contacting law enforcement and CPS most importantly can assist in keeping your child safe and can also create records of your spouse’s bad behavior.
Finally, requesting emergency orders that keep your child from being in a vehicle or even in the presence of your drug or alcohol abusing spouse can keep your child out of harm’s way in an immediate sense. Waiting a week or two for a temporary orders hearing is not an option when your child’s life can be at stake.
Questions about the impact of drugs and alcohol on your divorce case? Contact the Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC
When the safety of your child is at issue you cannot take any shortcuts. Hiring an attorney with experience in this area can make a tremendous difference. The Law Office of Bryan Fagan, PLLC represents parents across southeast Texas in divorce cases and would be honored to do the same for you. In order to learn more about our office please contact us today. A free of charge consultation is available with one of our licensed family law attorneys six days a week.
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