Holiday schedules, like a possession schedule for non-holiday periods, can vary a great deal depending upon your and your family's circumstances. That is the nice part about child custody cases in Texas- you and your co-parent can create orders that can vary a great deal depending upon your family's needs. You and your co-parent have no requirement to follow the possession schedules laid out in the Texas Family Code. If that is what you choose to do, there is nothing wrong with that. However, there is no requirement to follow the Code's language. A judge is not going to force themselves into your case for this reason.
Instead, you and your co-parent will be given ample opportunity to negotiate through the relevant issues related to child custody. Most child custody cases last three to four months in duration. Yours may not last this long. Yours may be even shorter. However, most family law cases involving child custody tend to last about this long. What you can do during this time is pretty significant. The time can be spent arguing with your co-parent over petty issues, or you can spend the time productively going through the problems that are most significant to your case. The choice is yours, and only you can control your actions and emotions.
If you and your co-parent cannot use your time effectively or otherwise come to agreements on issues related to child custody, then the odds are good that you will end up having to utilize what is known as a Standard Possession Order. A Standard Possession Order is the essential, general possession schedule laid out in the Texas Family Code. You are probably familiar with a Standard Possession Order, even if you have never heard that term before. A Standard Possession Order is what most possession orders are based off on, even if the individual plan in question various from the standard charge to one extent or another.
A Standard Possession Order creates a repeatable, predictable schedule for you and your children to follow. If you have gone through a circumstance where you were not sure when your co-parent would allow you to see your children, this is an excellent benefit for you. Not only are you given a pre-arranged schedule ahead of time in which you can plan your time, but you also have a court order that is enforceable in the future should your co-parent violate the order and deny you visitation wrongfully. Hopefully, you will never have to enforce the court order, but if you do, you should have a signed court order than an informal order that was simply agreed to in principle between you and your co-parent.
The bottom line is that a Standard Possession Order is intended to protect and encourage the best interests of your children. Your child's best interests will be the central focus of a court should the case need to go in that direction. Likewise, the court will presume that you and your co-parent are each making decisions that are in the best interests of your children. This is an important distinction to draw, given that a court will not be concerned with what is in your best interests as far as being able to maximize time with your child. If spending more time with you is in the child's best interests, then that will be reflected in the court's orders. Otherwise, what makes you happy is not at the top of the list of considerations that a court will have.
For your purposes, you can look at standard possession order as a jumping-off point as far as beginning negotiations with your co-parent on the issue of coming up with a workable parenting schedule for the two of you to take part in together. Look at it this way- you can approach your co-parent during the negotiation phase of your child custody case with the idea that you can fall back on if you cannot figure out a more fact-specific plan that suits you in your family better. Ah, in my years as an attorney, I have found that it is more likely than not that you and your Co-parent will be able to settle here child case outside of court. However, if that is not possible, you all may be able to avoid at least going to court by agreeing to a standard possession order if a settlement cannot be reached in the first period.
What are the standard possession orders foremost child custody cases?
We see child custody cases utilize standard possession orders when it is necessary for your child's primary residence to be designated. For most child custody cases, a child's primary place will need to be fixed if you and your Co-parent are not able to do so together in negotiation. The reason for this is that the primary residence of a child is crucial for determining the school your child will attend and which parent will have to pay in which parent will have to receive child support. This is in addition to many other rights and duties relevant in the conservatorships aspects of your case.
As you can see, the ability to designate the primary residence of your child is essential. It can somewhat easily lead to your divorce or child custody case going to a trial if an agreement or settlement cannot be reached on this subject. It is slightly easy for this case to go to a problem because there is very little middle ground that can be achieved when determining the primary conservator of a child. If you are dead set against paying child support, you may need to take your case to a trial if no settlement can be reached.
When you go to a trial on a child custody issue, the most likely outcome is that a court will follow a standard possession order. The reason for this is that judges are reticent to deviate from a normal possession order, given that they cannot possibly know every circumstance of your case even after a one or two-day trial. In that case, a judge would likely play it safe and try to go right down the middle with a standard possession order. This could end up in a good or a bad thing for you depending upon the facts and circumstances of your case. If several aspects of your claim were choir complex thought in consideration, then that may be better for you all to attempt a settlement outside of the courtroom.
Even still, you and your Co-parent may be uncomfortable with the idea of deferring to a family court judge on issues like this which are fact and circumstantially sensitive. Judges operate with a gavel and not with a scalpel. This means that the judge in your case will most likely be unable to come up with better solutions to complex circumstances than you and your Co-parent would be; therefore, the more complex your issue may be, the more you and your Co-parent should be motivated to settle your case on your own without the assistance of a judge. There is nothing wrong with going through a trial, mainly if the problem is limited to a few issues that you all could not settle on your own. However, all things being equal, it is excellent to work out your problems with your Co-parent directly rather than relying upon an outside source to do so. I think you will find that not only your court orders will be better for your family, but you can use the opportunity to negotiate as a way to build trust and goodwill between you and your Co-parent.
In the meantime, I think you should be prepared for the possibility that a standard possession order is utilized in your child's custody case. The more information you can have on this subject, the better off you will be to negotiate a schedule during the school year for your child or during holiday time. With that said, let's spend the remainder of today's blog post going through standard possession orders for summer and holiday visitation and possession. These periods are a little more complicated than the school year, where your child's noncustodial parent will have control under standard possession order on the first, 3rd, and 5th weekends of each month.
Major holidays such as Thanksgiving and Christmas
When it comes to the major holidays of the year, notably Thanksgiving and Christmas, you will have possession of your child for one holiday, and your Co-parent will have control for the other, when each of you has custody and for what holiday will depend upon the year. Usually, one parent will possess the other child on a particular holiday in odd years, and the other will have possession during even years. Let's suppose that this year you would have possession of your child for Thanksgiving, and your Co-parent would have control for the Christmas period. This would change the following year where your Co-parent would have Thanksgiving, and you would have Christmas.
One distinction that we should make regarding Christmas is that it is typically split up into two halves in most dangerous possession orders because it is such a long holiday. The Tavern Christmas holiday begins at 6:00 PM only that day without periods begin that parents period of possession will typically end on the day after Christmas or thereabouts. The second half of Christmas will end at 6:00 PM on the day before school is back in session. Note that under a standard position order, you will not possess the children both for Christmas and Thanksgiving in the same year.
Other important holidays are Father's Day and Mother's Day. An important thing to note for both of these holidays is that even if Father's Day falls on your Co-parent's weekend of possession, you will still be able to possess your child for the holiday that corresponds to you being a mother or father. This is typically well thought out and explained clearly in possession orders. If they are not, you run the risk of the charges being unenforceable.
Another consideration for you is that depending upon your cultural or religious heritage, you may need to consider other holidays not contained in a standard possession order. Rather than risk negotiating on these holidays each year, it makes a great deal of sense for you to consider them beforehand and have them contained in your child custody orders. That way, you do not have to go back and revisit these topics to reinvent the wheel every single year. Why not think about them in advance and not have to worry about them moving forward? This is a great advantage that you could have by thinking ahead and planning how these topics influence your life.
How do summer vacations work under a standard possession order?
The other significant set of holidays that need to be considered regarding a standard possession order is summer vacation. Summer vacation is the most extended period that your child will have away from school throughout the entire year. It would be best if you thought about how you want to structure summer vacation regarding the possession of your child. This is what a summer control schedule looks like under a standard possession order. If this does not sound like something which would appeal to you and your family is especially important for you to speak with an experienced family law attorney to figure out a plan that suits you and your family's needs better period.
The noncustodial parent of your child will have up to 30 days of continuous possession of your child during the summer. In most cases, your choice of 30 day periods must be designated to your Co-parent buy date in April. This will give error code parents time to plan trips of their own with their children and other considerations patients. I recommend that clients have a reminder on their phones to make sure that they can update The Co-parent in time to take advantage of this long stretch of visitation.
If you do not designate your period of possession with your Co-parent in time, then the month of July will be selected for you to possess your child. This may ultimately be what you want, but it is recommended that you be as transparent as possible with your Co-parent when it comes to your intentions with your children and time with them. This way, you all will have an open line of communication with unimportant subject matter like this.
Another essential issue to consider when it comes to child custody and Holiday possession is that birthdays Are still shared between parents even if the birthday falls on a day that does not correspond to that parent's average time of possession. For example, let's suppose that your child's birthday does not fall on the weekend you had them. In that case, your Possession schedule would likely allow for you to have an opportunity to have dinner with them from 6:00 to 8:00 PM on their birthday. This is a relatively short period but would give you some chance to see them and share their birthday presents if you choose.
In conclusion, these are some of the significant components of a standard possession order as they figure into year-round visitation and possession and holiday visitation and guardianship. A standard possession order is the law of the land as contained in the Texas family code. It is supposed to be as fair and equitable as possible when dividing time with children between you and your Co-parent. However, it is only a suggestion, and it does not have to be utilized if your family can reach other conclusions regarding possession and access.
That means that You and your Co-parent are better off being able to engage with one another. The better off you will be working on solutions to relatively complex problems involving your family. If you cannot work together and subjects like this, then it is likely that you will need to defer to a family court judge. While their solutions may not be wrong, they almost certainly will not work as well for you and your family as one created by you and your Co-parent as a team.
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