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The Dirty Trick of Filing for Divorce in Another City

Many of my potential clients are concerned with filing first in their Texas divorce case. Many of them have the impression that if they are not the first to file, they will be at a disadvantage in their case. In many cases this is generally not the case when both spouses are represented by divorce lawyers.

However, there are some exceptions to this rule. One of those is when the spouses are in different cities. In such a case filing first can provide a real strategic advantage.

In today’s blog topic, we will focus will be on how choosing the battle ground of where to file for divorce can impact Texas divorce proceedings when spouses live in different counties.

Choosing Which County to File In

In most divorce cases, there is not an option on where to file a divorce. This is because Texas Family Code Section 6.301 sets out the residency requirements for filing for divorce. Those requirements are that at least one spouse must have been:

  1. a domiciliary of this state for the preceding six-month period; and
  2. a resident of the county in which the suit is filed for the preceding 90-day period.

What this section basically says is that if both spouses live in the same county in Texas then there is only on option on where the spouses can file. However, if spouses live in different counties then there is possibly a choice.

Why should I care if the divorce is in one county or another?

There are a number of reasons why choosing one county over another can make a difference. One of the biggest reasons is when the counties are several hours apart such as Bexar County versus Harris County. In such a case this would mean:


One spouse would have a much more convenient forum for their divorce. While their spouse would have to make a trip that takes hours back and forth whenever there is a court hearing.

Additional costs

The distance can also create additional costs such as time off work, fuel costs, or having to rent a hotel whenever they are required to travel.

Local Attorney or Attorney in City where Case is Filed

Another decision the spouse who must travel will need to make is whether to hire an attorney near them who will have to travel or an attorney in the county where the divorce is filed. Either choice will have pluses and minuses.

If they hire an attorney them it will be more convenient to meet to discuss and prepare the case. However, whenever there is a hearing they will be paying that attorney to travel which can be costly. This attorney may also not be as familiar with the local rules for the divorce court in that county.

If they hire an attorney in the county where the divorce is filed meeting that attorney to prepare will be more inconvenient. However, they will not be paying that attorney as much for travel and that attorney is more likely to be familiar with the local rules for the divorce court in that county.

The Race to the Courthouse

If both spouses are aware that the divorce is coming and that they are living in separate counties, then it may be obvious that they need to race to the courthouse so they can control where the divorce proceedings will take place.

The Dirty Trick in Action

One example of this trick in action is in a case where we represented the husband. His wife left him and moved to San Antonio where here parents were immediately filed for divorce and got him served.

The husband then contacted and hired our firm. We then immediately filed for divorce and got her served.

What happens when there are two divorce cases pending in Texas?

The issue is whether or not:

  1. the Husband, is entitled to seek a divorce in one Texas county when
  2. the wife filed first in a different Texas county.

Dominant Jurisdiction

As a general rule, when suit would be proper in more than one county, the court in which suit is first filed acquires dominant jurisdiction to the exclusion of other courts. See Wyatt v. Shaw Plumbing Co., 760 S.W.2d 245, 248 (Tex.1988).

Any subsequent suit involving the same parties and the same controversy must be dismissed if a party to that suit calls the second court's attention to the pendency of the prior suit by a plea in abatement.

Exceptions to the Rule

There are three exceptions to the rule:

  1. Conduct by a party that estops him from asserting prior active jurisdiction;
  2. lack of persons to be joined if feasible, or the power to bring them before the court; and
  3. lack of intent to prosecute the first lawsuit

See Wyatt v. Shaw Plumbing Co., 760 S.W.2d 245, 248 (Tex.1988).

Estoppel Example

In Clawson v. Millard, 934 S.W.2d 899, 901 (Tex. App. 1996) Husband asserted in the second court (Galveston) that even though Wife filed for divorce in Houston first, the Galveston court had dominant jurisdiction because exceptions to the general rule of dominant jurisdiction applied.

Husband claimed that Wife was estopped from relying on the fact that she filed first in Harris County because she waited four and one-half months to have Husband served with citation in the Houston suit, and that by the time Husband was served, he had already filed for divorce in Galveston and had previously served Wife with citation.

The Galveston court agreed and ruled in favor of Husband.

Plea in Abatement

One way to combat your spouse filing in another city is to file a plea in abatement in that court. This basically ask the court to place your spouses divorce case on hold.

Some valid reasons for filing this motion can include:

  1. The three exceptions listed above as well as
  2. Your spouse not meeting the residency requirements for filing for divorce in the first place in that city.

In the example I gave above where the wife ran off to San Antonio and immediately filed for divorce one of the reasons we asked for a plea in abatement in the Texas divorce case she filed was that she did not meet the residency requirements.

Additional Costs and Expenses

We ultimately were successful in getting the wife’s divorce cased abated. However, the whole matter created additional costs. This was because:

  1. there had to be an additional hearing in San Antonio over the abatement hearing as well
  2. as preparations and gathering evidence to prove that she did not meet the 90-day residency requirement
  3. Additional filing fees and pleadings prepared for that hearing

One thing we did to try and help save our client money was to reach out to a local San Antonio attorney to handle that hearing. This saved our client some money in regards to not having to pay for an attorney to travel to and from Houston for that hearing.

Our client also was saved a great deal of frustration of having to handle a divorce case in San Antonio versus locally for him in Houston. Whereas as when it was determined that Houston had the dominant jurisdiction over the case the wife for a time tried to combat the case from San Antonio as well as hired a San Antonio attorney to fight the case in Houston.

Seek Legal Advice Immediately

If your spouse is threatening to move to another city or has already moved to another city, you will want to seek legal advice from a Texas divorce lawyer immediately to go over your legal rights. This not a situation you want to take lightly.

The consequences of delay are severe. You do not want to be fighting your divorce case in another city.

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